{"id":474,"date":"2015-07-07T11:07:17","date_gmt":"2015-07-07T08:07:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/suomenkuvalehti.fi\/kirjeita-aidille\/?p=474"},"modified":"2015-07-08T21:50:56","modified_gmt":"2015-07-08T18:50:56","slug":"people-who-are-always-late-arent-optimistic-theyre-jerks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/suomenkuvalehti.fi\/kirjeita-aidille\/people-who-are-always-late-arent-optimistic-theyre-jerks\/","title":{"rendered":"People who are always late aren\u2019t optimistic, they\u2019re jerks"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dear Mom,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ok, so you know <a href=\"http:\/\/elitedaily.com\/life\/culture\/optimistic-people-have-one-thing-common-always-late\/1097735\/\">this article<\/a> that\u2019s been circulating your Facebook feed for the past couple of weeks? The one with the picture of the hot girl and the headline that says &#8221;<em>Optimistic people have one thing in common: They\u2019re always late&#8221;<\/em>? Well now thousands, if not millions, of chronically late people are walking around (probably late for wherever they\u2019re going) thinking that it\u2019s not only OK to waste other people\u2019s time but actually admirable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yeah, that makes sense. Because despite what that article says, those &#8221;optimists&#8221; are actually self-centered jerkwads. Period.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As Diana DeLonzor, author of <em>\u201cNever be Late Again\u201d<\/em> says:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8221;People who are continuously late are actually just more optimistic. They believe they can fit more tasks into a limited amount of time more than other people and thrive when they\u2019re multitasking. Simply put, they\u2019re fundamentally hopeful.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m sorry, but that\u2019s bullshit. Believing that you can do more in less time than everyone isn\u2019t optimistic, it\u2019s egocentric.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s a newsflash for you, Chronically Late Person. You\u2019re not a superhero, you\u2019re human just like the people you constantly keep waiting. No, you can\u2019t fit more into less time than the rest of us. And since you\u2019re ALWAYS late, you\u2019d think you would have learned that by now. And maybe you would have, if you actually valued the time of the people waiting for you. But alas you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Diana DeLonzor goes on to say that:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8221;Telling a chronic late person to be on time is like telling a dieter, &#8217;Don&#8217;t eat so much.'&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well yes, that\u2019s right, Diana! It actually is THAT SIMPLE!&nbsp; Generally people who need to be on a diet SHOULD be eating less (believe me, I know). And people who are always late SHOULD just learn to be on time. How effing hard can that be?!?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Like Einstein said, <em>&#8221;Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.&#8221;<\/em> So unless you have a note from your doctor saying you\u2019re insane, there\u2019s no excuse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But hey, there is some hope. After all, it&#8217;s never too late to change!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Love,\nLissu<\/p>\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Mom, Ok, so you know this article that\u2019s been circulating your Facebook feed for the past couple of weeks? The one with the picture of the hot girl and the headline that says &#8221;Optimistic people have one thing in common: They\u2019re always late&#8221;? 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