Dear Mom,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, it\u2019s Women\u2019s Day. To celebrate, I got a rose, yummy pancakes and… accused of nagging. And while words like \u201cnagging\u201d, \u201cj\u00e4k\u00e4tt\u00e4\u00e4\u201d and \u201cnalkuttaa\u201d are always infuriating, I figured today was as good a day (ok, maybe the best day) as any to bitch (oh yeah, I forgot to add \u201cbitching\u201d) about it. The fact is this: Men complain. Sometimes they even have to explain or point something out several times. But if you have a dick this is called ”repeating yourself”. If you don\u2019t, you\u2019re ”nagging\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Finland constantly tops the list of the most gender-equal places on Earth. Men take paternity leave, there are lots of female MPs, and you\u2019re probably going to be disappointed if you expect a male date to pay for your dinner. Yet I know tons of \u201cnaggers\u201d like me. You know, women who\u2019ve always got something to bitch about (i.e. an opinion), have PMS 24\/7 (i.e. sometimes actually get annoyed), and repeat things like 500 times (because if they didn\u2019t, they\u2019d never get done!!!).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Playing the nagging card is an offensive and annoyingly effective way to end a conversation. I\u2019m pretty good at comebacks, but the best one I\u2019ve come up with so far is… well, nothing. And that\u2019s because there kinda\u2019 isn\u2019t one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The only function of the nagger label is to remove the authority, force, and even humor from what women have to say. It trivializes our words and our brains. And you know what? That\u2019s really f***ed up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So if you\u2019ve got a dick, stop using the other \u201cN-word\u201d. And if you don\u2019t and you\u2019ve found yourself wondering if maybe he\u2019s right and you are a nagger, trust me, you\u2019re good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Love,\nLissu<\/p>\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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