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Especially from afar. But it\u2019s even easier to say nothing out loud and to think quietly to yourself: \u201cThank God that\u2019s not happening where I live and to me and my kids.\u201d For the past few weeks, I\u2019ve been doing exactly that about Gaza. And let\u2019s be honest, you probably have too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, it\u2019s complicated. Yes, it\u2019s confusing. Yes, it seems like they&#8217;ve been fighting forever and always will. And no, there\u2019s not much you or I can do to change what\u2019s happening. But since I met my new friend, saying nothing at all about it has been feeling more and more cowardly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a Jew, especially and American one, I &#8221;should&#8221; understand why Israel is doing what it it\u2019s doing. But as a human being, I can\u2019t. Because as a human being, my place is on the right side of wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I&#8217;m on the side of those who believe that no objective is worth achieving if it means killing little kids and babies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The side of those with no place to go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The side of those who don&#8217;t use horrors of the past to justify horrors happening today, right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The side of anyone who believes that peace is the only thing really worth fighting for \u2013 and that almost nothing is worth dying for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The side of those who live and let live.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The side of those with the vision to see things from the other side.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The side that risks danger and persecution to speak the truth (like my brave new friend).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The side of people who don\u2019t let a shared religion or cultural background blind them to injustice, crime and murder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The side of those whose only crime is having parents who happened to have sex in the wrong place at the wrong time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I could go on and on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Today, I\u2019m on the side of every Israeli brave enough to stand up and speak out against what\u2019s happening in Gaza. 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